Wow check out this wedding nightmare story

The biggest problem was dealing with my now-husband. 

He would get all bent out of shape anytime I brought up the subject. 

We had set the date and I planned a very small gathering in a natural setting. Suddenly all that had to be changed to accommodate my husband's family. That left me with two months to plan a wedding for 60 people. Half of his relatives I invited out of obligation didn't RSVP or even show up. 

The total party was about 20. 

I ended up cancelling the caterer and let my friends and husband prepare the food----which was a mistake. 

It was such a stressful experience for me because I had to do everything else and work that around a 55-70 hour work week. 

He and I fought over how much things cost. And to be honest the cost was very reasonable. I made this wedding happen all for about $2000.00. No loans taken out or anything. I worked 3 jobs to make it happen. 

In addition to that he still complains about what I spent on his wedding band which was $599.00 for a wide 14K white gold band. I wish I never told him when he asked. He asked me days before the wedding and when I told him, he threw a tantrum. Out of anger he told me he wasn't going to wear it, and that he wasn't going to smile for the pictures. 

I ended up canceling my photographer because he complained about the price. An acquaintance said she'd do it for $200.00. 

She was to take plenty of pictures, edit them, and put them on a disc. When my husband threw a fit, I cancelled on her. I wished I hadn't have done that. And tried to get her services back two days after cancelling on her, but she had already made other plans. 

I'd imagine if I could do it all over again---I'd run far far away lol.